
蛋如水~蛋如水呀。
先與各位分想一段很經典的對白。
"Now I have come to the crossroads in my life. I always knew what the right path was. Without exception, I knew, but I never took it. You know why? It was too damn hard. Now here's Charlie. He's come to the crossroads. He has chosen a path. It's the right path. It's a path made of principle that leads to character. Let him continue on his journey. You hold this boy's future in your hands committee. It's a valuable future. Believe me. Don't destroy it. Protect it. Embrace it. It's gonna make ya proud one day, I promise you"
我想大家都很熟悉這段對話吧,然而我們也常遇到這樣的問題,都有遇到選擇時,而跨不出去的那段路,太難了,不知該如何跨出,太迷枉,不知該選擇那條路。
在十字路口時,不知該走那條路時,挑一條走,是需要極大的勇氣及努力,而當確定要跨下去時,那更是極大的挑戰,面對未知不確定的一切,確定要走下去時,是多需要他人的呵護及鼓勵。
為什麼想寫這些,上次寫了一篇"踏出一步,那就是你的路"之後,還是不斷感受到,一些做長輩的對於後輩的期待,然而,這些期待通常往往轉而成壓力,多少的耳語,總是希望瞭解到最好的,但卻往往都是混亂無章,更多的是,聽取一分,說出九分,只說了一句,但卻被傳成一大篇故事,扯的是,長輩們什麼都幫你想好準備好,結果,進也不是,退也不是。
當已經下定決心跨出時,是已經做好多少的準備,請不要在去破壞他,請保護他,呵護他,瞭解他而尊重他,失敗了,錯誤了,也只是人生的一次經驗,無法永遠將他保護在懷中。
我也將走到下一個十字路口,該怎麼走我還沒決定,因為這實在是 god damn hard.